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Army Against Stillbirth

Posted by Til Heike-Woods

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I thought stillbirth was just that; stillbirth. Then I learnt there is a very important word that changes everything, PREVENTABLE Stillbirth.

Before our family became one of the 6 Australian families per day that experience a baby’s death from stillbirth, I never knew just how prevalent this type of death a baby continues to be.

Don’t get me wrong, I knew what stillbirth was; I knew that it happens, and you should monitor your baby, look for changes, be aware. Well, I thought I knew, but I didn’t - only after the fact did I understand just how critical more information and awareness can make to the outcome of a pregnancy.

So that’s why I stand and join with those who are seeking improvements to policy, improvements to care and awareness that have the potential to affect real change.

We can improve how we provide information, improve clinical guidelines on stillbirths, we can provide proper and lasting care for those families that have experienced stillbirth and we can raise awareness to change the way we talk about stillbirth in the public conscious.

By coming together, we can share our want to see positive progress on these issues. It doesn’t mean we, as bereaved parents, are stuck in our grief, it doesn’t mean we are wallowing in our loss. To stand up means that I have experienced something that I don’t want any other family to experience. Especially when we know that there are very real ways that we can help prevent stillbirth from happening.

It’s a truth that everything in this world is constantly changing. I can’t think of many things that have remained unchanged for 20 years; but to know that the statistics on stillbirth in Australia have remained unchanged for so long is disheartening. To think we live in this country that offers us so much, but could be so lagging in an area that affects many families. I would have given anything to know more information when it matted, when it could have saved my daughter.

It breaks my heart to see families struggling with no support after their baby has died. I was lucky, my support network was strong. Some people aren’t as lucky. There should be systems in place to provide the appropriate and lasting support bereaved families need. It will take a conscious effort to facilitate change, so requesting the government to fund evidence based guidelines and implementing effective after care, we can begin make progress.

We won’t get to see our daughter grow up, but everyone will see me as I stand up so that her voice and her life can help others. I wish I had known then what I know now, I wish I had had the tools to be better informed. It may have changed the outcome for me; it may not.

Although it doesn't change my experience, on the 6th of every month I stand together with other mothers, fathers, families and those who believe that we can do more to change the outcome for other Australian families.

Progress takes one step at a time, and if losing a child teaches you anything it’s that even the smallest footprints can have the biggest impact.

Army Against Stillbirth

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